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All I'm asking for is a little consistency....

Let's be clear, just because I'm single don't mean I'm desperate. And to be quite frank and honest, if I wanted someone, I could easily. But I actually prefer QUALITY individuals in my presence.

Being on the dating scene in 2010 is a horror Shawty. Niggas broke, don't wanna spend no time, lying, got two different baby mammas, old as hell still in school, living with another bitch or his mama, and still tryna talk to you. You can barely get a date, and a nigga tripping bout taking you to Applebee's to get a 2 for 20. I mean Shawty come on?! What can u do?

You can't answer the phone, you text when you want to, update Facebook but you can't call or reply huh? Lol. A hot mess. One day you wanna be my man, you wanna make me happy, you wanna be my friend, you wanna spend time, you wanna be a stand up guy, you wanna get to know me and do it right this time, you sorry about last time, but all you wanna do is come over and "chill"? ATP, BOI STOP.

Lol. Now ya'll might be laughing, but these are some real life experiences. Not all from one person but several. But the crazy part about it, I actually tried to be understanding to these people at some point and time cause I know we in a recession people loose jobs, people go to jail lol, but I actually tried to be there. But at this point, I realized that the point of me being understanding is out the window. You got to come at me with some real consistency before you can even get some of my time. Granted its getting cold outside and all (boo season), but I'm not in a rush to settle for some bullshit.

So ladies, here is what we have to do. When people say "messing the guy up for the next girl", we don't mean hurting his feelings and turning him cold, we mean making this nigga who is really a piece of shit think he the shit.Don't hype these niggas up, have em thinking they all that, stroking they ego and shit, only to give them this facade about themselves that don't even exist. Please have some standards about yourself. Cause these Niggas will try you if you let them.

So Ryan, what are you looking for?

Hmmm... Good question. I'm looking for someone to give me what I give them. Give me your time, give me your talent, and if you really nice give me your money :) lol. I'm just playing, but for real, treat me like a woman. How you want your sister, daughter, and mother treated, cause I'm all of those, and I deserve it.

I'm the same person everyday I wake up, I'm just asking you to do the same :)


Consistent is a derivative of the work constant.

con·stant [kon-stuhnt]–adjective
1.not changing or varying; uniform; regular; invariable: All conditions during the three experiments were constant.
2.continuing without pause or letup; unceasing: constant noise.
3.regularly recurrent; continual; persistent: He found it impossible to work with constant interruption.
4.faithful; unswerving in love, devotion, etc.: a constant lover.
5.steadfast; firm in mind or purpose; resolute.
6.Obsolete. certain; confident.
–noun

Lol yes, I do have a dictionary app and don't mind using it when needed.

Consistency then Understanding. That's how I do it....


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