Fall For Your Type...

#shoutout to Vanessa Smith and Kelli Marie Ross!!

This doesn't even need a lot of explaination. The words to the song are 100% of how I feel... So, it is what it is!!! Check us out!

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Jamie Foxx – Fall For Your Type (ft Drake)

[Jamie Foxx - Verse 1]
Can I, can I save you from you
cause you know there’s something missing
and that champagne you’ve been sippin’s
not supposed to make you different all the time
it’s starting to feel like the wrong thing to do girl
cause with all that recognition it gets hard for you to listen
to the things that I must say to make you mine
But live girl, have some fun girl, we’ll be fine
trying to convince myself I’ve found one
making the mistake I never learned from
I swear I always fall for your type, yeah (for your type)
tell me why I always fall for your type (for your type)
I just can’t explain this sh-t at all (fall for your type)
I just can’t explain this sh-t at all (fall for your type)
(I believe in people like you)


[Jamie Foxx - Verse 2]
So who am I to judge you on the past, girl
I think there’s a reason for it all
you say that you’re nothing like the last girl
I just pray that you don’t let me down right now
it’s too late, I’m already yours
you just gotta promise me, hearts won’t break
and end up like before
I swear I always fall for your type, yeah (for your type)
tell me why I always fall for your type (for your type)

[Drake]
Look, dress hanging off your shoulder, barely sober
telling me how you moving away and starting over
girl, quit playing you just drunk, you just saying sh-t
oh you dance, dance like how, like ballet and sh-t
oh, wait, no, I get it girl, I’m with it
I’ve been down this road before and yeah I skidded but forget it
damn, yeah, I wonder why I never why I learned my lesson
it’s feeling like the second chance and its the first impression
and I heard it’s nothing new except for someone new
but how you supposed to find the one when anyone will come with you
lyrics courtesy of www.killerhiphop.com
talking to myself but I never listen,
cuz man it’s been a while, and I swear that this ones different
that’s why I’mma take you anywhere you wanna go
let you meet my friends so they can lecture me again about
how reckless I have been
and I’m slowly running out of all the time that I invest in
making all the same mistakes
and I’m just trying to correct it and I fall..

[Jamie Foxx]
I swear I always fall for your type, for your type
tell me why I always fall for your type, for your type
I just can’t explain this sh-t at all (fall for your type)
I just can’t explain this sh-t at all (fall for your type)
(I believe in people like you)

Two is better than One...

Let me start by saying that I only blog when it comes to me. I don't do it because I'm bored, I have to be inspired to write and I write how I feel 100%, without any filters (never to offend anyone)... Just how I feel point blank period...

Every morning, me and one of my Best Friends send bible verses to each other, and this morning, this is what she sent....

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (King James Version)

 ⁹Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
 
 ¹⁰For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.
 
 ¹¹Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone
 
 ¹²And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

So, I'm reading this like, OH YES!!! These are my wedding vows! Boooyaaaaw! Lol, but seriously tho, I read this and so many things just passed over my mind... It was soooooooooooo crazy...

Okay, so this is my thing... I ABSOLUTELY cannot stand to hear people (esp women) say that they just wanna be single and they so independent, and they don't need a nigga and all that... The true low down on that is quite frankly, you probably CANNOT get one, and are using the independent CRAP as a scapegoat.

On to the fellas, "Oh, I just wanna be single and play the field.... I don't wanna settle down, I'm too young to be with one girl, it too much pussy to get out here".... NIGGA WHAT?!?!? (BOI STOP)

When I hear this, all I hear is an insecure ass nigga who selfish as hell, who is TRULY afraid that he would fail at being a one woman man, and is to weak to really even try. #shoutout to all the women who are being fooled cause it ain't me... Lol.

So really, what is the big deal with have multiple females and niggas on the team? Sound like more money and time spent than necessary. I'm really tripping myself out on how I can see straight through people right about now.

Ok, I'm off my soapbox, let me explain what GOD is truly tryna say in this passage.

God did not intend for us to be alone, simply put. He made Adam and Eve as counterparts. He did not make Adam alone, and he did not make Eve alone. Adam is not capable of doing everything alone, just as Eve is not.

No one individual is perfect, but together, they may have a perfect union that may accomplish all goals and overcome all feats.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not bashing single people, I'm just asking that they take a look at the true reasons they wanna be single instead of making the people that are in a relationship or yearn for relationships seem weak or inadequate for wanting someone. Your counterpart is there to comfort you, be your rock, and your helpmate, and quite simply, be the yin to your yang. If you could do it alone, God would have created One instead if Two.

Checks and balances boo...

Don't shoot the messenger, #imjustsaying...


*Disclaimer: I'm happy in my relationship/situation, this is simply to help others, Thanks!


 HOLLA :-)

Save Me - Nicki Minaj

Un-Think-Able... Pacing Myself...

Have you even been somewhere with a guy, he's kissing all over you, it's getting hot and heavy, and they whisper, "Don't fight it"?

And when they say that, it's like you melt... and what else is there to do other than let go?

Falling in love is hard. Especially when you been though so much and it's hard to see and feel because of all prior bs that you've been fed. Someone I used to know always told me that hindsight is 20/20. It is so much easier to situations clearer once you're on the other side of them...

Pacing myself... There are some people who are just hopeless romantics and just merely seem to fall in love with the thought of being loved/ in love. And after being single and misused and abused in situations, it's sooooooo easy to be that "hopeless romantic" at the slightest sign of someone showing interest.

I'm not gone lie, Of course I yearn to be in love and run off into the sunset and live happily ever after, but I have truly realized that I have GOT to pace my self in this relationship if I'm going to be successful...

WAIT OMG, did she just say relationship??? Ummm yes! I did, lol.

So here's the thing... I got this guy that I'm REALLY diggin on, but its like I keep holding back on myself because I'm afraid. I'm afraid of taking MYSELF to fast.

It's like I just sit and daydream and listen to Isley Brother's and think about how it could be and where it could go, but then I stop myself because I'm like "Ryan chill out, it hasn't even been 30 damn days... RELAX"...

Man, have you just ever had someone to read you so well, have you feeling like "Which one of my friends are you talking to? Because they telling you all my business".... Like someone must have told you EVERYTHING about me cause you doing everything right. Just like Nicki Minal say...

"Before I played it
You knew my hand
You could turn a free
Throw to a goal
Nigga got the peep
Hole to my soul"

But, in reality, I can't stop thinking and daydreaming, so I've made the decision that I would PRAY and continue to ask GOD to guide my heart so that I may follow it :)

So yea, I'm doing the Unthinkable... I'll make him my baby, even if it makes me look crazy... And If he asks me, I'm Ready :)

You give me a feeling that I never felt before

And I deserve it, I think I deserve it

It's becoming something that's impossible to ignore...And I can't take it :)

[kuhn-sis-tuhnt]

All I'm asking for is a little consistency....

Let's be clear, just because I'm single don't mean I'm desperate. And to be quite frank and honest, if I wanted someone, I could easily. But I actually prefer QUALITY individuals in my presence.

Being on the dating scene in 2010 is a horror Shawty. Niggas broke, don't wanna spend no time, lying, got two different baby mammas, old as hell still in school, living with another bitch or his mama, and still tryna talk to you. You can barely get a date, and a nigga tripping bout taking you to Applebee's to get a 2 for 20. I mean Shawty come on?! What can u do?

You can't answer the phone, you text when you want to, update Facebook but you can't call or reply huh? Lol. A hot mess. One day you wanna be my man, you wanna make me happy, you wanna be my friend, you wanna spend time, you wanna be a stand up guy, you wanna get to know me and do it right this time, you sorry about last time, but all you wanna do is come over and "chill"? ATP, BOI STOP.

Lol. Now ya'll might be laughing, but these are some real life experiences. Not all from one person but several. But the crazy part about it, I actually tried to be understanding to these people at some point and time cause I know we in a recession people loose jobs, people go to jail lol, but I actually tried to be there. But at this point, I realized that the point of me being understanding is out the window. You got to come at me with some real consistency before you can even get some of my time. Granted its getting cold outside and all (boo season), but I'm not in a rush to settle for some bullshit.

So ladies, here is what we have to do. When people say "messing the guy up for the next girl", we don't mean hurting his feelings and turning him cold, we mean making this nigga who is really a piece of shit think he the shit.Don't hype these niggas up, have em thinking they all that, stroking they ego and shit, only to give them this facade about themselves that don't even exist. Please have some standards about yourself. Cause these Niggas will try you if you let them.

So Ryan, what are you looking for?

Hmmm... Good question. I'm looking for someone to give me what I give them. Give me your time, give me your talent, and if you really nice give me your money :) lol. I'm just playing, but for real, treat me like a woman. How you want your sister, daughter, and mother treated, cause I'm all of those, and I deserve it.

I'm the same person everyday I wake up, I'm just asking you to do the same :)


Consistent is a derivative of the work constant.

con·stant [kon-stuhnt]–adjective
1.not changing or varying; uniform; regular; invariable: All conditions during the three experiments were constant.
2.continuing without pause or letup; unceasing: constant noise.
3.regularly recurrent; continual; persistent: He found it impossible to work with constant interruption.
4.faithful; unswerving in love, devotion, etc.: a constant lover.
5.steadfast; firm in mind or purpose; resolute.
6.Obsolete. certain; confident.
–noun

Lol yes, I do have a dictionary app and don't mind using it when needed.

Consistency then Understanding. That's how I do it....


Holla!

You Promised Me You Would Never Change...

They look at me and say... You Promised Me You Would Never Change... And I won't...

It's funny how you meet someone and you feel like it's meant to be. Ya'll on the same beat, same tune, hearts beating to the same rhythm, same verse, singing the same lyrics... Right? Wrong!

Shit is always so good in the beginning. Oh you wanna know everything about me... You love everything about me. I'm so down to earth, so real, yet so smart and educated right? So young but yet so mature. Smile that lights up the room. Hell, I thought those were all the things you loved about me??? Wrong again. Now all of a sudden, I'm so hood, I don't wanna grow up, I don't wanna make lateral moves, I'm being complacent???

Let's get one thing STRAIGHT. I'm from the WESTSIDE of Atlanta, and NOTHING will ever change that. However, I am a college graduate, Tuskegee University Class of 2008 GPA 3.05, I have a career, I am on the path to reaching my (true) career goals, I'm a Mother, a provider, and foremost a Child of God. He made me the way he wanted me to be, and as I have stressed several times over the course of this blog, I'M OKAY WITH THAT. I'm so confident, so sincere, and so PROUD of the woman that I have grown to be.

But you don't feel as though I'm not good enough. I don't have any etiquette. I have a gap. I'm gaining weight... I mean, but who the hell are you to judge me?

I'm not the one who changed. I'm not like you. I'm still the same one, with my loud music, windows down rebel without a cause bad ass. No career, no money, no group of friends, no region of which I live, no person on this MUTHAFUCKIN Earth, will ever change me, Ryan Amorell Woodbury, raised on the WESTSIDE, still on the WESTSIDE, and guess what baby, I'M OK WITH THAT! HOLLA!

Prayer :)

I honesty feel like people been sleeping on Jesus. That's the only thing that makes sense to me. Most times when people tell me they have a problem, I asked, "Well have you prayed about it?" And most people be like, "Man, you right..." But they still carry on complaining. When is the last time you prayed about it?

Over the past two weeks, I been taking a different approach on EVERYTHING. I mean everything. Every night I been praying myself to sleep, or reading the word til I go to sleep, and I can honestly say I been seeing a difference. People/situations I been confused about, aren't even an issue any more. Lol. I ain't even thought about that nigga alllllllll day today. Lol and that's real. My problems, I ain't been stressing on em. And I got a rebate check in the mail today! Holla!

Simply put,

Pray on it...

I did :)