Two is better than One...

Let me start by saying that I only blog when it comes to me. I don't do it because I'm bored, I have to be inspired to write and I write how I feel 100%, without any filters (never to offend anyone)... Just how I feel point blank period...

Every morning, me and one of my Best Friends send bible verses to each other, and this morning, this is what she sent....

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (King James Version)

 ⁹Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
 
 ¹⁰For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.
 
 ¹¹Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone
 
 ¹²And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

So, I'm reading this like, OH YES!!! These are my wedding vows! Boooyaaaaw! Lol, but seriously tho, I read this and so many things just passed over my mind... It was soooooooooooo crazy...

Okay, so this is my thing... I ABSOLUTELY cannot stand to hear people (esp women) say that they just wanna be single and they so independent, and they don't need a nigga and all that... The true low down on that is quite frankly, you probably CANNOT get one, and are using the independent CRAP as a scapegoat.

On to the fellas, "Oh, I just wanna be single and play the field.... I don't wanna settle down, I'm too young to be with one girl, it too much pussy to get out here".... NIGGA WHAT?!?!? (BOI STOP)

When I hear this, all I hear is an insecure ass nigga who selfish as hell, who is TRULY afraid that he would fail at being a one woman man, and is to weak to really even try. #shoutout to all the women who are being fooled cause it ain't me... Lol.

So really, what is the big deal with have multiple females and niggas on the team? Sound like more money and time spent than necessary. I'm really tripping myself out on how I can see straight through people right about now.

Ok, I'm off my soapbox, let me explain what GOD is truly tryna say in this passage.

God did not intend for us to be alone, simply put. He made Adam and Eve as counterparts. He did not make Adam alone, and he did not make Eve alone. Adam is not capable of doing everything alone, just as Eve is not.

No one individual is perfect, but together, they may have a perfect union that may accomplish all goals and overcome all feats.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not bashing single people, I'm just asking that they take a look at the true reasons they wanna be single instead of making the people that are in a relationship or yearn for relationships seem weak or inadequate for wanting someone. Your counterpart is there to comfort you, be your rock, and your helpmate, and quite simply, be the yin to your yang. If you could do it alone, God would have created One instead if Two.

Checks and balances boo...

Don't shoot the messenger, #imjustsaying...


*Disclaimer: I'm happy in my relationship/situation, this is simply to help others, Thanks!


 HOLLA :-)